Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Jack Russell Nesbit with the following comment:
I am researching Nesbit of Marlborough and Nelson,NZ for a direct descendant of the first member of their family to arrive in NZ at Nelson 1842. I am already in contact with other descendants of this family. I apologise if I have already asked for this photo or other Nesbit photos but I have had a major loss of data and need to re-establish my facts and figures.